To be rescued on a desert island, you need to kindle fires, leave inscriptions in huge letters on a sandy beach. But if the island turns out to be completely inhabited, and you may have to ask for help from a representative of the opposite sex, then some nuances must be taken into account. If a Woman exclaims: "I feel bad!" - a man may not immediately guess what she needs first of all - to provide first aid, put on clean clothes, or rush to look for a means of transportation to help get to where she came from. Or maybe he could dismiss the request, and continue to go his own way. So that nothing like this happens to you, not only on a desert island, but also in everyday life, you need to learn how to state your requests for help correctly, taking into account what gender your interlocutor belongs to.
Instructions
Step 1
You need to ask a man for help not from a description of the emotional state in which you are due to a problem that has arisen, but from a statement of what the difficulty is that forced you to turn to him.
Step 2
You do not need to state the request as if you are ordering a person to help you, or inviting him to do it, just ask for help without unnecessary hints and comments.
Step 3
Be specific about what you expect from a man: physical help, financial or moral.
Step 4
I will constantly refuse to help you if you start scolding and reproaching the person you are contacting.
Step 5
It is worth asking a woman for help a little differently so that you are heard and understood correctly. First of all, you need to show how important it is for you to help solve the problem, in what emotional state you are now.
Step 6
A woman can ask the most unexpected questions for you regarding your request, offer several solutions that may seem absurd at first glance, but it still makes sense to listen to them.
Step 7
Women tend to comfort and sympathize, so be prepared, in addition to helping you with an issue of concern, to receive moral support as well.
