These are just fairy tales and ladies' novels that end at a magnificent wedding. In life, after marriage, everything is just beginning. No, not the worst, and not the best. It's just that a completely different story begins - life after marriage.
Instructions
Step 1
Why is the story different, because people are the same? The fact is that if you spend more time with a person, he will open up from the other side, often from the most unexpected. Meeting for several hours a day, it is impossible to get to know a person thoroughly. And after marriage, a life together begins, full of various situations. Life, again. This is where real relationships begin.
Step 2
Everything changes. And first of all, the daily routine is changing. One lark, the other an owl. Someone has breakfast at 11.00, but for someone it is already lunchtime. The marriage begins with these little things, because each of the newly-minted spouses has their own habits. The grinding-in period, as many call it, begins immediately after the wedding.
Step 3
During this time, the spouses adjust to each other. For one pair, lapping goes smoothly, for others it is given with large nerves. This can actually be difficult, especially if people are different in spirit. But there is no need to go to extremes. You can neither exacerbate difficult moments, nor release them on the brakes. Voice to help. After all, somehow it was possible to get along before the wedding, and now it will turn out. The main thing is to discuss everything, not to stoop to insults and laugh more often. Humor, oddly enough, saved more than one family boat in the first stage of family life.
Step 4
After the wedding, there are new responsibilities for both parties. No, this is not about who is obliged to support or feed whom. Although, these moments often become a stumbling block in the family. After marriage, each spouse must reckon with the other. I just have to do it, in the name of respect. It shouldn't be on edge. Even after the registry office, a free person remains so - there should be no servility in a relationship. But it is imperative to inform, consult and listen. This is called respect.
Step 5
After marriage, the family budget changes. What used to be divided into one is now divided into two, and with the advent of the baby, into three people. Already we have to refrain from rash, inappropriate waste. It's hard at first. But if you live in the same regime, then it will be impossible to make ends meet, even if the salaries of both are decent. We'll have to plan. But, on the other hand, the budget is doubled and now, if you distribute funds correctly, you can decide on some major purchases and trips. Thus, after marriage, new opportunities arise.
Step 6
The status changes, the place of residence changes, sometimes the cities change. But the most important thing that changes after the wedding is that the loved one is now nearby. In wealth and poverty, in sorrow and joy. Now this is the rear, this is the basis of everything. For the sake of the family it is worth living, it is worth adapting and, sometimes, changing. And then life after marriage will be infinitely happy, and only good changes will occur.
