After marriage, changes in the life of a man begin to occur, and sometimes quite dramatic. Not all of them are capable of delivering joy and satisfaction, but many negative moments can be prevented.
For most newlyweds, marriage is the beginning of a new life, as it can change a lot. Some men admit that with the beginning of family life, they had to give up many habits, learn to compromise with their soul mate. At the same time, few people want to return to bachelor days, because marriage also brings pleasant surprises.
Everyday problems
After marriage, everyday problems are inevitable. The newlyweds who did not live together before marriage can feel them especially acutely. For some men, this becomes a real problem. Until recently, harmony and lightness reigned in a relationship with his girlfriend, and after the wedding it became obvious that the chosen one is not a very good housewife or, on the contrary, loves cleanliness so much that she constantly "nags" her man about dishes left in the sink or scattered things.
Newlyweds do not always understand that they grew up in different social conditions and they may have different views on life. To maintain a good relationship, you need to learn to make concessions.
Lack of free time
After marriage, a man has less free time. Before marriage, he could meet with his girlfriend, pay attention to her, but the rest of the time belonged to him. After the wedding, the lack of personal space is very acute. To make each of the spouses feel comfortable, you need to find free time for a hobby, sitting in a cafe with friends and watching a football match with friends. This will benefit the relationship.
Cooling in relationships
Many men complain that relationships with their beloved women become colder after marriage. Over time, the spouse begins to pay less and less attention. If earlier, during meetings and romantic dates, they completely belonged to each other, then after the wedding, other things appeared, everyday problems.
Partners gradually get used to each other and gain confidence that their other half will not go anywhere now. This means that you can calmly go about your business and pay less attention to your loved one. Sexual life often becomes less diversified as well. This is easily explained, since people are attracted to what is inaccessible. So that the relationship does not reach a dead end, you need to pay more attention to each other, try to add variety to your intimate life.
In this case, you need to find the pluses in the changes that have occurred. After the wedding, your beloved woman is always nearby and you don't need to look for a place to meet, go on a date to the other end of the city.
New relatives
After the wedding, a man acquires new relatives in the person of his wife's parents, brothers, sisters. Relations with them go to a completely different level. Sometimes they get warmer, but more often the opposite is true. In this case, lapping is also necessary.
Relatives may not like a lot, but it is important to keep your distance and learn how to properly respond to all the small conflicts that arise within the family. To smooth out all the "rough edges", the newlyweds are initially better off living separately.
New responsibilities and budget planning
After marriage, a man has many new responsibilities. Now he must take care not only of himself, but also of his spouse. With the advent of a man's family, as a rule, the level of well-being decreases slightly. After the wedding, the budget is already considered common, and with the advent of the child, all income is divided into three people. But don't worry about this. For many of the stronger sex, this becomes an additional incentive to increase income. They start thinking about how to make more money.
After marriage, spouses have other responsibilities that are not related to finances. They need to plan their free time together, ask their partner's permission, if there is a need to go somewhere for a long time, to leave. Don't take it negatively. New responsibilities are better viewed not from the point of view of restricting freedom, but as a manifestation of caring for each other.
Love and care
Despite the difficulties that arise at the very beginning of the joint journey of the newlyweds, many men remember the first months of family life with great warmth. Those who lived in splendid isolation before marriage are especially able to appreciate the changes. After the wedding, a man no longer needs to think about how to create comfort in the apartment, how to cook food. A loving wife surrounds him with care. Of course, not all household chores for modern women should be taken upon themselves, but a division of responsibilities appears and this cannot but rejoice.
