There are different opinions as to whether female friendship exists as such. More often, probably, people are inclined towards a negative answer and have the right to do so. But those who build their friendships day after day are ready to assert the opposite.
Instructions
Step 1
Take time. It takes time to develop and maintain any relationship. Without high-quality and full-fledged communication, people simply lose interest in each other. Therefore, despite the crazy pace of life and workload, make time for friends in your schedule.
Step 2
Learn to listen. Women are more inclined to talk than listen, but if something really bothers a friend, then you need to sacrifice your interests. Of course, if she once again talks about her ex, then you can tactfully hint that it's time to close the topic, but if the problem is serious, then without listening, you will not be able to help.
Step 3
Share both joy and sorrow. Life consists of many events and, walking with a friend through life, you need to correctly perceive all the vicissitudes of life. Learn to be there when she is happy and when she is going through the most difficult moments in life. Believe me, a real friend will appreciate it.
Step 4
Respect personal space. Even the closest and most trusting relationships need rest. Each of her friends has her own life, family, work and interests. Therefore, one must respect each other's right to spend their leisure time separately or the desire to keep any secrets secret. Believe me, spending time alone will only bring you together.
Step 5
Don't judge. Even the closest people can disagree. If you think your friend is making the biggest mistake of her life, don't try to prevent it. Be honest about your concerns, but don't stop your loved one from acting on their own. Even if you later have to console her and help her cope with the consequences of your mistake, she still has a right to it.
Step 6
Accept help. Friendship is a process involving at least two people. Therefore, not only take the initiative on your part, but also know how to accept and appreciate what they want to do for you.
Step 7
Give gifts. The best assurance of love is a gift. It can be a cute trinket, a useful item, or a fashion accessory. But the point is not in the gift, but in the attention that you show, as if saying: "I was thinking about you."
Step 8
Hone the art of being a friend. Don't think everything is perfect. Try to be more attentive and reliable day by day.
