Sometimes in life you have to make a choice not in favor of a person who was once dear. The process of adapting to life without someone will take a long time if you do not take several measures.
Set a goal
The first thing to do in order to adapt is to outline a plan for the future. It is important here not to turn off the planned road and not to include unnecessary people in these plans. It is necessary to completely rebuild, not to allow moments from the past to come up in memory. Even if those moments were wonderful. The most correct slogan is that there are no irreplaceable people. This is really so, time will pass, and this can be seen clearly on our own example. To make it easier to move away from a person in the future, you do not need to get attached to him. It is worth keeping your distance so that it does not hurt excruciatingly.
Get rid of memories
The next step on the path to a new life is to remove the glue. This category includes: photographs, correspondence on social networks, a phone number in a notebook, gifts, symbolic songs and films, clothes, perfume. All things that directly or indirectly remind of a person must be thrown out. Do not just close it in a closet, but take it out of the house in order to get rid of it irrevocably. If this is not done, then sooner or later you will want to revise the photos and gifts. This will only stir up memory and become an obstacle to achieving the goal - to remove a person from your life.
Exclude meetings
Care must be taken to exclude the likelihood of a personal meeting with the person. It is necessary to determine a list of places where he can appear, where he lives, walks and rests. Of course, you won't be able to completely evaporate, but if you try, you may never meet again.
If there is no longer a desire to communicate with a person, to have any relationship with him, but he does not share this position, then you need to try to explain your point of view in a civilized way, while giving weighty arguments. In the future, it is better not to provoke your enemy, but simply to evaporate, like a butterfly, from his life.
Revise your social circle
If you go all the way, then you probably need to exclude from your circle of communication not one person, but several. You cannot put before a choice - with whom to communicate and with whom not, mutual friends and acquaintances. The choice must be made on your own. The exclusion of the general circle of acquaintances will help to avoid unpleasant questions, proceedings, attempts at reconciliation.
Possibility of relocation
If possible, it is better to leave for another city, country, or at least move to another area. At the same time, do not notify common acquaintances about your move and do not leave your details. It is worth taking care of changing the phone number, mailbox, page on the social network.
