Not all relationships lead to a happy and long family life. Breakups are not uncommon, and often the reason for this is a banal reason: one of the couple is simply tired of the relationship. But a man is not always ready to report this directly, so it is important to be able to recognize such a situation. And be able to distinguish it from temporary difficulties.
Instructions
Step 1
The first doubts can be sown by a sharp change in a man's behavior. Earlier, attentive and sensitive, he suddenly ceases to show signs of attention, calls and writes less often. Here it is important to overcome yourself and not start calling him. If his behavior has changed so radically, being too persistent will only make matters worse. Better try to figure out what could be the reason for such cooling.
Step 2
To begin with, try to understand if the man's attention has really waned. Maybe your needs have increased, and the man is still behaving as attentively as before? Perhaps, even at this stage, the contrived problem will be solved.
Step 3
Analyze the events of the last days. Has there been any quarrel between you, even the most insignificant one? Remember, maybe you said something to him that seems to you a harmless joke, and his dignity could be offended. No matter how strong men try to seem, they sometimes turn out to be very sensitive.
If you remember such a situation, consider that half the battle is done. Now try to improve the relationship, because you know what is the cause of the discord.
Step 4
If resentment is unlikely, remember how your lover's lifestyle has changed. Maybe he has new hobbies or work, in connection with which he temporarily "pushed" you into the background. If this is indeed the reason, have a heart-to-heart talk with the man, tell him that it is hard for you and you also want to be paid attention to. Then the problem can be solved.
Step 5
But if you have already received a refusal from a date for the umpteenth time, if a man, when he meets, is having fun with toys on the phone instead of communicating with you, this is a reason to suspect that he has lost interest in you.
Step 6
Another sign of a lack of interest is the guy's increased irritability. Pay attention to how he reacts to your actions. A chilled man often begins to criticize literally every little thing, to find fault with the behavior that he previously liked.
Step 7
Refusal of a romantic evening with an intimate continuation will also indicate that you are bored with him. A man may say that he is terribly busy, but you can easily recognize the insincerity of his excuses, especially if this is not the first time this has been repeated. Or he can accept the offer, but in bed will be cold. Try to surprise him, somehow diversify your sex life. If the number of dates does not increase, and the coldness only progresses, then the conclusion will be unambiguous - he is tired of these relationships.
