Gone are the days when a man dominated relationships. Now in family life the husband shares the main role with his wife. The decision to start a family can also be made by a woman, she often makes the first step.
Should you propose to a man
Before taking such an important step, make sure that you are ready to take it. You risk not only getting rejected, but also losing your loved one forever. The fact is that many men consider themselves "leaders", they will not tolerate a woman near them who will put pressure on him, push him to make any decisions, and even more so decide for him when it is worth thinking about creating a family. If your lover has a similar character, do not risk it, it is better to wait until he matures and proposes to you.
A man who has not offered his hand and heart to his woman for a long time, most likely, is not yet ready to marry. He believes that his time has not come yet. If you rush things, he may agree to marry, but you are unlikely to see a good and responsible husband in his face.
If your boyfriend fits the description of your dream husband perfectly, but he is too shy to take the first step on his own, then you may really consider the proposal. In any case, it's up to you to decide.
How to make an unforgettable offer
Having decided on such a desperate step, first try to give him a few hints that you dream of becoming his wife. Maybe he himself will understand everything and run to the jewelry store for wedding rings. If everything remains the same, it's time to take on the heavy artillery.
A romantic marriage proposal can be made on the seashore. Warm sand, gentle sunset and the sound of the surf push you to incredible declarations of love. Arrange a small picnic, tune your loved one to the necessary wave and you can safely take this step.
You don't have to say the specific words "Be my husband." Get creative and write him a song or a love poem. These lines should clearly indicate that you want to live with him all your life. Give him such a postcard at the top of a mountain, near a magnificent waterfall, in a fashionable restaurant, or even in a hot air balloon. If you find it difficult to say it out loud, then the poems will come in handy.
A marriage proposal can be made unexpectedly and in a humorous manner. For example, call him in the afternoon and offer to take time off from work in order to "run" into the registry office. Such a spontaneous proposal may please your beloved.
The offer can be made as you like. Kissing him tenderly in the morning, or bringing him coffee to bed, relaxing at a spa, watching a movie about love, shopping for groceries, or even skiing down a huge mountain. It depends on what kind of girls your man likes. Some people like romantic, gentle natures, and some - unpredictable, spontaneous, risky, even a little wild. The most important thing is to hear the coveted "yes" in response.