Problems in the relationship between fathers and children are as old as the world. Films and books, TV shows and publications in newspapers are devoted to this topic. But always, when a child begins to feel like a separate special person, changes begin in relations with parents. Each family needs to look for its own path, grope its own paths so as not to bring each other to stress and depression.
Instructions
Step 1
A lot in the relationship of matured children with their parents depends on more experienced older family members. After all, it is they who, in childhood, should lay in the child a respectful and kind attitude towards mom and dad. And they must be able to control their behavior. You cannot constantly criticize the actions of children.
Step 2
If your parents are judgmental about your actions, try to explain your point of view to them. Of course, mom and dad have a ton of tips and tricks for you that they consider to be the only true ones. Try to calmly and logically state the concept of your view of the world. It's okay if this will cause a wave of objections and reproaches. Discuss, talk, prove that you can think and act.
Step 3
Learn to take responsibility for your actions. Often you will be wrong, fate will spread a lot of rake in your life path. But the ability to understand your mistakes and draw the right conclusions is the skill of an adult mature person. If it turns out that your parents were right, ask them for forgiveness for not trusting their words.
Step 4
Do not be afraid of disputes and discussions, it is in them that the truth can be born! Defend your right to be an independent person. To do this, you must make deliberate and reasonable actions, think about your future.
Step 5
Ask your parents for advice more often if you are at a loss to make a decision. They will be very pleased that their matured child appreciates their opinion. Always be the first to go to reconciliation if there is a conflict, because, huddled in your corner, only small children pout.
Step 6
Try to remember to inform your parents about events in your life if you live separately. Pay more attention to them, inquire about health and offer your help. Remember the holidays of mom and dad, congratulate them and give useful gifts. When raising your child, consider your experiences with parents.
