The opinions of parents and children do not always coincide. It seems to you that your significant other is perfect, but your parents think differently. What to do in such a situation if there can be no question of parting with a partner (partner)?
Talk to your parents seriously
This conversation still cannot be avoided, so it should not be put on the back burner. It's time to find out why parents don't approve of the choice. Find out what exactly they don't like about your partner, why they came to this opinion. Perhaps there was just some misunderstanding between you, which is very easy to correct.
Think about what could have made your parents skeptical of your soul mate. Sometimes, obeying only the movement of the heart, we do not listen to what the mind is trying to tell us about. Maybe the parents are right about something? Take a closer look at your girlfriend (friend). Think logically: your parents want you to be happy, but your spouse makes them anxious. Let them tell directly what the matter is. If in fact there are no compromising circumstances for the chosen one, then you can calm down and take a breath. In any case, you should not rush to the wedding - you need to meet at least a few months in order to get to know the person better.
Take control of the situation
Time passes, it seems that your girlfriend (boyfriend) shows herself only from the best side. But your parents still don't approve of your relationship. You need to break up or fight for your love. There is no third. But since your parents are the closest blood relatives, do not even think about quarreling with them. If you decide to stay with a half, present your parents with a fact. Share your feelings with them. They, too, were once young and should understand you. Say that you have all seriously thought that the person you have chosen as your life partner is not only your love, but a good and reliable friend.
Never speak disrespectfully of your parents to your spouse. By the way, let the partner also try to earn the trust of future relatives - this will only benefit. No matter how your parents teach you, do not give up on yours. Offer them your help at the right time, especially when your spouse does some difficult service for the parents - this will disarm them. So it's worth working on it. Lovers need a little patience during this period of life, the reward will be a strong and friendly family.
Announce your engagement to your parents. In the end, they will come to terms with your choice, especially when grandchildren are born. All troubles will be left behind and looking into the eyes of the baby, parents will remember their youth when you were just born.
