Assess your relationship with your parents. Are they trustworthy? Do your parents understand that you have grown up a long time ago and have the right to make decisions on your own? Do they listen to your opinion? Consider yourself very lucky. Parents managed to raise you and let you go. It is much worse if you already have children of your own, and your parents are still trying to lead you and you are still the same little child for them as before.
Instructions
Step 1
Think, maybe you yourself gave a reason to consider you insolvent. How often do you turn to your parents for help in solving everyday problems? This could convince the older generation that you are not yet independent enough and need their care. So they rush to help, not paying attention to your age, marital status.
Step 2
Understand your parents, they are worried about you. More than anything, they want you to be happy. When they try to help you, they forget that you have grown up a long time ago. Therefore, they are unnecessarily compulsively trying to participate in your life. Do not hold a grudge against them, they simply do not know how to do it differently, they need a little help.
Step 3
Make it a rule to decide for yourself what you really need. Be able to stand up for your decisions with dignity. If you have already made a choice, follow it, and do not shy away from the first parental shout or reproach.
Step 4
Be tolerant, do not scream, do not make scandals with the statement: "I am already an adult, I can do anything, I do what I want." Calmly listen to the opinion of your family and say in an even voice: "Thank you very much for the advice, I will consider your proposal and decide what to do." Sooner or later, parents will be forced to understand that you have already grown up and make your own decision.
Step 5
Remember to communicate with your parents regularly, they should not feel abandoned. Share your business with them, but be sure to make sure your parents don't try to force their opinions on you.
Step 6
Remember, you are responsible for your parents in the same way that they were responsible for you before. When you were little, you needed the attention and love of your mom and dad. They now also urgently need it. Seeing your care, adequate behavior, parents will eventually get used to the fact that you are independent. Your relationship will improve and move into a new quality.
