Breakups are ubiquitous, and whatever the cause, some young people strive to maintain relationships after they are no longer together. Chatting with an ex-boyfriend who has already made a new girlfriend can be difficult, but still quite possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine the purpose of your relationship with your ex. There can be two options: simply keeping in touch with a once-close boyfriend, or returning your relationship.
Step 2
When you decide to chat with your ex out of courtesy, don't be jealous of your new girlfriend in the first place. In no case discuss her flaws, do not try to find out something about their relationship and do not express your opinion about them. Any word may not be perceived the way you would like it, and your connection will be cut off.
Step 3
Don't push yourself on your ex. Remember that he has a girlfriend, and your frequent calls can embarrass her and lead to incorrect reasoning. Don't try to date your boyfriend too often, because he has a new relationship that requires all of his attention.
Step 4
Don't get close. Avoid touching, memories of the past, and playful looks. All this must be left in the past, otherwise your communication will come to naught, because your ex's new girlfriend is unlikely to approve of this.
Step 5
If you decide to return to your old relationship, you will have to act differently. Above all, stay on top of your ex. It is not necessary to call him every day or walk near the entrance of the house in which he lives. Simple meetings in neutral territory will suffice. These can be shopping centers, where he often happens, birthdays or parties with your mutual friends and other places.
Step 6
Change. You need to show that the reason you broke up is a thing of the past. You have to get better at exactly what he was not happy with. In addition, to attract attention, you will have to make some changes in appearance. Get brighter and more visible.
Step 7
Be nice to his girlfriend. When meeting them, say hello and smile to both. You can even ask the guy to introduce you to her. Do not avoid talking with her, boldly look in the eyes. Another important rule is not to humiliate yourself. Don't cry in front of your ex, begging to come back to you. Restrain your emotions in any situation.
Step 8
Show your ex that you're okay. If you approach him and his new passion with a sad face and tears in your eyes, be sure that your venture will fail. On the contrary, smile and show with all your appearance that everything is fine with you, and your life without him goes on as usual. This is what will make him think about whether he did everything right when he decided to break up with you.
