Being a good wife is an art that is not born with, it is taught gradually, sometimes at the cost of a lot of moral bumps and traumas. Joint harmonious coexistence of two people is also joint daily work. We have some tips that you might find useful.
Instructions
Step 1
There shouldn't be many of you. Even if a loved one has already become your husband, this does not mean that now you need to be present in his life, in all his deeds and actions. You are two adults, so everyone already has an established world - work, friends, hobbies and habits. Both him and you should have their own territory, the more pleasant it will be to find common ground.
Step 2
Your home, even if filled with relatives and friends, should be YOUR home, within the walls of which you can take a break from everyday troubles, relax, feel comfort and coziness. Much depends on you. Nobody demands that every day, coming after work, you rush to the stove, start cooking, washing and cleaning, but you must be able to do all this and at the same time teach your spouse this. Household chores can be done together or in turn, they should not be a heavy duty for anyone.
Step 3
Do not hesitate to praise your husband, telling him how and for what you love him, but even here you need to know when to stop. If you criticize its shortcomings, then you should notice the merits.
Step 4
If you are together, then you should be united by love and respect for each other. And these feelings presuppose trust. Of course, from time to time you can express jealousy, if there is one, but constantly rolling scenes and controlling it is not worth it. On the other hand, subtle control doesn't hurt, but it shouldn't turn into a mania.
Step 5
Never criticize his parents or try to quarrel with friends. Parents are still not chosen, and he may "outgrow" his friends under your leadership. If this did not happen, then accept, because something connects your loved one with them, respect his choice.
Step 6
A good wife can lose a single battle, but she can win the battle. Do not be afraid to give in, if this, of course, does not apply to matters of principle. If you are right, then over time your spouse will be convinced of this and will listen to your advice more often.
Step 7
And most importantly, loving your husband and devoting yourself to your family, do not howl to take care of yourself - your beauty, health, education - because now this is your common family capital!
