Women complain that it is difficult to communicate with men, and sometimes it is simply impossible to understand the logic of their actions and behavior. Like, because of this, you don't know how to treat them. In fact, a woman, if she wants, can easily learn to treat a man correctly. To do this, you just need to understand the features of male behavior and thinking.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember immediately: men and women are different. This is not only about primary and secondary sex characteristics, but also about fundamental differences in psychology. These differences are due to the composition and ratio of hormones. That is why it makes no sense to expect a man to think and act like a woman. Failure to understand this simple truth leads to misunderstandings and conflicts.
Step 2
If you are waiting for help, advice or just participation from a man, so that he pity you, consoles you, says kind words, clearly and clearly state the essence of the problem to him. Do not hope that he himself will guess about your troubles by the barely changed intonation of your voice or the slightly noticeable trembling of his lips. Will not guess! And not at all because he is so callous, cruel, or, even more so, stupid. It's just that men are much less attentive to details and much less emotional. There are some exceptions, of course, but they do not change the general rule.
Step 3
Remember also that men and women have completely different scales of values. Are you ready to burst into tears over the fact that your girlfriend came to the party in a breathtaking outfit that would suit you so well, but too expensive? Do not complain about this to a man: he sincerely does not understand how you can worry about such (from his point of view) trifles. Your words that she did it on purpose to hurt you, he will generally take it for nonsense. Cry in the women's company, there you will surely be understood and regretted.
Step 4
Don't forget that men like to think of themselves as leaders. Get your way not with tears or reproaches (they say, can't you give in to a weak woman), but diplomacy. Skillfully, patiently, gradually lead him to the idea that he himself wants to make just such a decision, to do just that and not otherwise. Never raise your voice to him. Even delicate, quiet men hate this.
Step 5
Show your partner care and attention, but within reasonable limits, without turning into a nanny. After all, a man who, without the help of a woman, cannot find anything, is unable to serve himself, looks simply pity. Encourage his initiative in every possible way, the desire to do something around the house, to earn some money somewhere. And don't forget to praise for every such attempt. Although the stronger sex is less susceptible to flattery and compliments than the weak, but kind words are pleasant to him.
