In order for the first date, which will become decisive in the development of your further relations, to pass at its best, you must not let things go by themselves. Think over his plan ahead of time. Not a very good option to start your acquaintance with a meeting at a cinema or a club. You will hardly be able to communicate there. Choose a place that is conducive to communication and exchange of impressions. And sincere emotions are the best "mirror of the soul". Remember that the date initiator must take care of all the nuances.
Weather permitting, plan a pleasant route through the park or waterfront. It is advisable to familiarize yourself with the area in advance in order to choose a place for solitude and a light picnic. Take a backpack with a small blanket, put in a couple of sandwiches, fruit, chocolate, a thermos of tea or a bottle of wine. If the weather is good, but not conducive to long walks, then make a route so that it will lead you to a cozy cafe, where you can relax and warm up, and at the same time continue a pleasant conversation.
It is pleasant to remember childhood at any age. Visit a circus, zoo, dolphinarium, or amusement park. Any of these places will allow you to make the date easy and will provide a lot of topics for conversation and discussion. And positive emotions and memories greatly increase the chance to continue meetings. True, these establishments must be of a fairly good level and quality, otherwise, instead of joy, you may end up with sheer disappointment.
If you live in or near a large enough city, try to find out what options for excursions are available in the city itself and its environs. This option is especially suitable for those who are not very talkative or shy at the initial stage of dating. This will not only be interesting, but also save you from having to say or invent something all the time. And at the same time it will give you the opportunity to prove yourself as an intelligent person.
For an active holiday, choose the appropriate program. Bowling, ice skates, roller skates, bicycles for rent, horseback riding - will help you have fun and at the same time get to know each other better, in a non-standard situation people usually directly and openly show their emotions and character traits. A more relaxed option is a billiard club.
If both of you are not afraid of heights, you can find a suitable roof of a tall house and have a light dinner there. The night scattering of lights below sets you in a romantic mood and is very conducive to rapprochement, because it is much more pleasant to look at it with an embrace than separately.
Do not disclose in advance all the subtleties of the upcoming event, but be sure to warn about the necessary form of clothing, as its inadequacy can spoil all your plans.
