You are very dear to a spouse or a man who is nearby, and you want to keep a relationship with him forever. Then try not to make typical mistakes in communicating with men and understand that your partner, just like you, wants to feel calm and comfortable in the company of a loved one.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that most men are alien to a woman's desire for impeccable cleanliness and order. They do not pay attention to such trifles and are not at all delighted with your constant teachings on this matter. Be more tolerant, and avoid nagging and directing about cleanliness.
Step 2
Don't keep your man on a short leash. Create the illusion of freedom by being calm about his hobbies and hanging out with friends. A woman who forbids her husband to go fishing will certainly cause him a well-founded misunderstanding and protest. Think about the fact that if a person wants to change you, then he will find enough reason and time for this. And it's not about fishing. Wives who take care of their husbands day and night, controlling every step, undermine the husband's faith in the strength of the relationship. Such pressure from a woman is perceived resignedly only by weak-willed henpecked. Do you need a dependent and weak-willed person next to you?
Step 3
When your man returns home, always greet him with joy, a smile and a ready-to-eat dinner. Discuss all problems calmly later. An indicator of the correct behavior of a wife is a spouse striving for a house in which he is calm and good, with joy.
Step 4
Refrain from tears and tantrums. When a spouse sees your tears and worries, he subconsciously begins to consider himself the cause of everything, as a result, he is angry that because of you he was in a psychologically uncomfortable situation.
Step 5
Men hate endless emotional conversations. Therefore, if you want to talk with your spouse, set a time limit for clarifying the relationship. Acting within certain limits, men feel more comfortable.
Step 6
Try to avoid criticizing your man, do not use words that can offend him. Of course, if your husband has offended you, defend yourself. However, choose a sensible communication style.
Step 7
Praise your man. Since from childhood, young boys are instilled with the idea that they should know and be able to do everything, becoming adults, they really need praise and recognition for the sake of their psychological comfort.
Step 8
Know that by making you a sexual offer, your man is offering you more than just sex. He asks you to accept him. Therefore, never completely reject a spouse's proposal. If you are not currently in the mood for sex and respond to your man's sexual offer "no", do not forget to say that you love him.
