The husband's desire to leave the family may be associated with the appearance of a mistress or arise without betrayal. In any case, a woman always has power in her hands, with the help of which she can keep her spouse and preserve the unit of society.
Instructions
Step 1
Assess your surroundings. Having felt a clear cooling or having learned that your husband has a mistress, you should not rush into battle. To begin with, calmly and adequately assess the current situation. Find the reasons why your husband decided to leave the family - an unhealthy psychological atmosphere, a lack of intimacy between you, your dissatisfaction with him, or others.
Step 2
Eliminate negative factors. If you know exactly what caused your husband's detached behavior, proceed to change the situation. Refuse to talk in a raised voice, change your anger to mercy, stop constantly blaming and underestimating him. Look at the situation from the outside, and you will understand what is wrong in your relationship.
Step 3
Add pleasant moments to your life. You probably used to spend time together more often and you had favorite activities together. Bring them back into your life, gently remind your husband of how good you were. It is important to say without words that you are ready to change and return to a happy life with him.
Step 4
Discuss the situation calmly. A heart-to-heart conversation will have a positive effect only if during it you do not pounce on your spouse, accusing him of all sins. Find the strength in yourself for a measured conversation, during which two adults will express their vision of an unpleasant situation and ways to solve problems.
Step 5
Do not vent anger and resentment towards your spouse. Even if a mistress appears on the horizon, you have a chance to save your family, so you should not rush with your fists at your husband. Be prudent - if you want to keep your spouse, behave calmly and spend energy planning to rebuild the relationship, not fights.
