An unpleasant situation arises in the family if his ex-girlfriend starts calling her husband. At such moments, the spouse begins to be tormented by jealousy, and she often cannot understand why the husband cannot leave behind his past.
Regret for lost love
Talk to your husband and find out who is calling him and what connects him with this girl. Perhaps these calls are completely harmless, and an old acquaintance wanted, for example, to congratulate your husband on his anniversary, a successful career, replenishment in the family, or just called for fun. If this incident happened once, do not worry. However, if you see that the man after that began to behave strangely, remains thoughtful for a long time and begins to devote less time to you, perhaps he remembered the past and his feelings for his ex-girlfriend, and this should no longer be left unattended.
Find out from your husband about his ex-girlfriend or ask his friends to tell about it. Perhaps his love for her was very strong, and parting with her cost him a lot of effort. A man may constantly be tormented by doubts about whether he did the right thing by choosing you, and not staying with her. If left unchecked, a man can swoop down and cheat on you, especially if the ex is not in a relationship.
Intimate talk
Take the man to a frank conversation and ask him to talk about his feelings. Tell him that you don’t get hostile to anything he says. After that, your spouse may admit that he is not letting go of his feelings for his ex. Try to immediately remind him of all the important events that happened already during your relationship with him. There must be a reason why he broke up with his ex, but at the same time fell in love with you and decided to start a family with you. Convince the man that it is better to live for the present and the future than to dream of a past that cannot be returned.
Encourage your husband to remember all the negative qualities of his ex-girlfriend. This will help him stop doubting the correctness of the choice in relation to you.
Give your husband more attention and take better care of him at a time when he is preoccupied with thoughts of past love. Seeing your care and affection, he can feel better and settle down, realize that you are his only love.
Take a long trip together. This will help strengthen the feelings and make the husband forget about his negative thoughts.
Take a long trip together. This will help strengthen the feelings and make the husband forget about his negative thoughts.
Call your husband's ex-girlfriend and convince her not to call again, so as not to annoy you and your spouse. If she wants to remain his friend and the husband himself is not against it, make sure that such a friendship does not develop into an affair on the side. Watch for a while how your husband will behave and how loving and considerate towards you he remains.
