For many girls, verbally confessing their feelings is not easy. Many people are afraid not to find the right words, to feel timid and to get into an awkward situation, starting to stutter or not saying anything. Some are afraid of being misunderstood or rejected. It is much easier to put your feelings and thoughts on paper or in an email.
Instructions
Step 1
The first problem many people have when trying to put their feelings on paper is how to start a letter? Start by talking to your beloved man. Further, the process will go easier. For example: "Dear Vanya, I have never written to you about my feelings …" Such a beginning of the letter will immediately make it clear what is at stake. If a man is not indifferent to you, he will read further lines carefully, slowly savoring every word.
Step 2
Do not think that mistakes or incorrect wording will creep into your letter. Try to write from the heart, express everything that you feel. Choose and think carefully about the words so that the message becomes elegant, and the phrases are deposited in the memory of the person to whom they are addressed. But do not overdo it: too beautiful words and florid phrases will create the impression of insincerity and pretense. Simplicity, sincerity and affection in this case will be much more appropriate.
Step 3
Write about what you think about the guy, the most valuable qualities of your beloved, about how dear the existing relationship between you is. Write about how the feelings that you are now experiencing were born in your soul. Tell us about your wishes regarding your future relationship.
Step 4
If you're texting a guy you don't know, don't be too frank about how you feel about him. It is not known whether the man has any kind of mutual feelings, any kind of sympathy. This means that it is not known what reaction your confession will cause in him. It is possible that he will laugh at you. Then you will be infinitely sorry that you entrusted him with the most intimate.
Step 5
Do not write anything negative in your message. For example, how bad you feel without a loved one. Such words in response will cause only pity, and not the desire to reciprocate. Do not threaten him that you cannot live without him. This will only alienate the person, make him avoid meeting you by any means, so that a random word does not provoke you into some stupidity.
Step 6
Do not forget about the design of the letter - this circumstance will serve you well. Do not write on a random piece of paper or on a torn from a notebook, take high-quality expensive paper. Write in an even and neat handwriting to make it easier for the beloved to read and understand the meaning of what is written. Or write a draft first, then reread and rewrite in beautiful handwriting. This will save you from corrections and blots, and will also allow you to make the necessary changes to the final version. And, of course, choose the envelope you think is the most beautiful.
