The personal environment of a teenager is a very important factor for him. If there are problems communicating with peers, it is necessary to help the child build relationships.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you need to find out the reason why the child does not have friends, why conflict situations arise, or maybe the guys simply do not perceive your teenager and write him down as an outcast. Unobtrusively, frankly talk to the child, find out the reason, act according to the situation. Help develop in the right direction. Determine what qualities your teen is lacking, confidence, independence, and so on. Help your child to work on strengthening the necessary qualities.
Step 2
Help the child, get closer to the interests of the company in which the teenager wants to be. If the guys are engaged in photography, music, sports, or other hobbies, enroll the child in appropriate activities. Do not be discouraged if the teenager wants to look like friends and for this you have to do an intricate hairstyle and buy new jeans.
Step 3
If a teenager, due to his impulsiveness, quarreled with a friend and decided to break off the relationship, stop him. Ask to tell you the cause of the conflict, analyze the situation together, perhaps the conflict is not so serious as to alienate friends. Teach your child to appreciate people, forgive, give a second chance.
Step 4
If a teenager is too shy, it is difficult for him to get along with people, then it is necessary to work on his self-confidence. Help the child look more attractive, new hairstyle, stylish things, the teenager should look well-groomed and neat and like himself first of all. Send him to fitness, to a gym, a good fit figure will add confidence in himself. Also, special trainings or courses that develop communication skills and fight shyness will help.
Step 5
All people are too different and strive to please everyone, it is impossible to be interesting for everyone. Encourage your teen to be who he is and love himself for who he is. People do not like falsehood and pretense. When a child perceives himself, he will surely attract friends who have similar interests.
Step 6
To improve the child's ability to communicate, parents need to devote time to him every day and talk about everything in the world. Ask questions, encourage the child to talk more, teach him to maintain a conversation, find new topics for conversation.
