Have you ever thought that you and your man speak different languages? Do you think that he does not hear you and does not want to hear, that he completely misunderstands you? It’s not about your man, but about the fact that all men really have peculiarities of speech perception. Men and women are used to communicating in completely different ways.
Instructions
Step 1
Always be clear about the topic of the upcoming conversation. Men hate vague language. A simple “let's talk about something” can make a man either mad or completely confused. A man should immediately understand what exactly will be discussed. In addition, do not forget that women are more attracted to the process of conversation itself, and men are more attracted to its end result. Hence the next step follows.
Step 2
Always end the conversation with some specific, specific conclusions. If you don't, then again you will have a conversation for the sake of conversation, which men hate. Therefore, in the event that you really want to convey some information to the man, be sure to end the conversation with a laconic conclusion about what exactly you wanted from him at all. Otherwise, the conversation will go to waste for the man.
Step 3
During a conversation, in no case say phrases that can offend male pride. Men in this regard are very scrupulous, any careless phrase can affect the interlocutor like a red rag on a bull, which means that you will not only fail to achieve the goal for which you started the conversation, but generally risk alienating the man from you. So watch out for what exactly you say.
Step 4
In conversation, always pay close attention to your emotions. Of course, you want to speak out, to express everything that has accumulated to a man. But behind these emotions, he may simply not catch what you wanted to say to him. The thread of your story will get lost for unnecessary digressions, and the man will only feel irritated.
Step 5
Try to complain less to the man. The fact is that the man to whom you are complaining perceives your words as if you are shifting some of your problems onto him, which he must now solve for you. However, he does not always want or is ready to solve them, moreover, sometimes these problems are in no way connected with him at all. In this case, the man simply does not understand how and why he should solve them. So stop complaining to him all the time.
Step 6
Don't take a man's silence as ignorance. More often than not, he just thinks over your words.
Step 7
And the last piece of advice - do not discuss the same topic with a man several times a day. This will also annoy him greatly.
Men are complex creatures and do not look like women at all. Therefore, dear women, learn to communicate with them correctly.
