If your spouse makes you jealous by fixing your cute colleague's computer or driving her home after work, then you can hardly admit it directly and ask not to do it again. In this case, the best way to point out to him inappropriate behavior is to make the man jealous! Thanks to several reliable methods, you can ensure that your husband looks at you in a new way and understands that he did wrong.
If you have children, not every method will work for you. Therefore, women who already have babies are better off using other methods.
Making men jealous - tips for those who have no children
If you have not yet had children and are not bogged down in motherhood and domestic problems, then it will be much easier for you. There are several ways to make your husband jealous that suit you:
- secret provocation;
- provocation;
- open provocation.
Of course, the best way to provoke jealousy in your husband is to push him to it. But at the initial stage, you need to act very carefully. Here your mobile phone can be your assistant.
When you talk on your mobile, always leave the room, or better yet, lock yourself in the bathroom or kitchen. It doesn't matter who calls you, the main thing is to create an aura of secrecy around your conversation. Thus, a jealous husband decides that you have secrets from him, and doubt will settle in his soul.
Be careful not to text your friends about your secret provocations. The husband can read them. If he does not know your girlfriend's number, rename her in the phone book, leaving her initials or signing with a name that cannot be used to determine gender, for example, “Zhenya” or “Sasha”. She may write you some ambiguous message that will also cause jealousy. For example: "Had a good time, will need to repeat!".
But if hidden signals do not reach the husband, you can proceed to the second part of the plan. Start communicating exclusively with men. These can be classmates, colleagues, neighbors, and others. Ask one of them to help you. For example, carry a bag home, fix a tap, set up a tablet. At the same time, tell your husband about everything so that he understands that he is not the only representative of the stronger sex next to you.
But if this did not help, then you need to start acting openly. Start visiting the gym, solarium, beauty salon, buy a new dress. Start taking care of yourself so that your husband sees that you look much better for no objective reason. If he calls you, then do not pick up the phone immediately, let him decide that you have more important things to do than his call.
Well, to awaken jealousy among the most "persistent", start coming home with "gifts". A bouquet of roses "from a fan", a cute soft toy or a bottle of perfume will definitely not leave any man indifferent.
How to make your loved one jealous - tips for those who have children
Only at first glance it seems that it is more difficult for those who have children to make their husbands jealous. You can also resort to the method of provocation.
Only in your case, engage in "light flirting" with other men. These can be actors of a children's theater, coaches of a circle where your child goes.
A loving husband will not allow his wife to discuss her child's achievements with a coach over a cup of coffee. Therefore, he will definitely tell you about it, which means that you have achieved the desired goal.
The most important thing to remember is that in everything you need to know when to stop. Too assertive actions can cause real doubts in the husband, which will lead to a scandal or even divorce! Light flirting and hints will help you spark the man's jealousy, which will help rekindle the fire of passion in your couple!