Men and women sometimes do not understand that even the strongest relationships can be destroyed at any stage. Psychologists recommend following some rules to help prevent serious mistakes.
Rule one - early intimate relationship. You can't have sex on the first date, even if both partners want it. For a woman, this is an unforgivable mistake. Since a man may well attribute her to an easily accessible person, a man is unlikely to want to build a serious relationship, and even more so a marriage with such a woman.
The second rule is frankness. Sharing information is an important step in the beginning of an acquaintance. But many try to tell absolutely everything about themselves on the very first date, pouring out a huge dose of revelations on their partner. This should be done gradually, not all at once.
The third rule is annoying by phone or SMS. Don't bother each other. Often, women endlessly call their chosen one or exchange constant messages on social networks or via SMS. You should not do this, otherwise you can just get bored or lose interest in each other.
Rule four - espionage. Worst of all, a man walks into a room and sees a woman looking at his email or reading an SMS. Then mutual trust automatically decreases, and as the saying goes: "no trust - no relationship." The prospect of a great relationship will be lost.
The fifth rule is a fictional orgasm. Many women fake an orgasm in order to support or please their partner and thereby increase their self-esteem. You can simulate an orgasm 1 or 2 times, but no more. If a woman constantly imitates an orgasm, then soon the man will understand this. Instead, discuss the moments that allow you to get real pleasure from sex.
The sixth rule is an attempt at re-education. Women should not try to change a man, as nothing good will come of it. Accept your partner for who they are.
The seventh rule is to remember yourself. If you forget about your needs and your desires, then you will never see happiness. Therefore, partners must understand that they must spend part of their energy on themselves in order to live fully. Relations, of course, need to be developed, but everything should proceed at a normal pace.
By keeping these rules in mind, you can avoid serious mistakes in your relationship.
