Children are clean and open-minded. They often do not know what self-interest, deception and other displeases that adults so often use are. Why do children kiss? So they express their love and sympathy for the person. When kissing, children imitate adults who also communicate with people.
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Step 1
Children often kiss their relatives, dads and moms. So they express their pure love and sympathy, imitating adults by their actions. But it happens that children kiss each other, and parents begin to think about this behavior. Is their behavior correct or should parents be wary here?
Step 2
A child's kiss is completely devoid of a sexual idea, it is pure and innocent. But often, although the action is asexual, it has a certain sensory load. Children, like adults, are also able to feel love and tenderness. First of all, a child learns to kiss his relatives and friends, in the future he "pours out" his tenderness not only on relatives, but also on his friends. So innocent kisses are a kind of training for real feelings. It turns out that this is still a manifestation of the rudiments of sexual feelings.
Step 3
For the first time, a child shows interest in the opposite sex at the age of 3-6 years. At this age, the child is very interested in the outside world, he is very inquisitive, and it manifests itself in many aspects. That is, the study of not only external aspects, but also your (and someone else's) body. Therefore, there is an interest in the opposite sex, which is projected through kisses, for example.
Here you play doctor and patient games, various tricky questions. Your child psychologist, teacher or doctor will tell you about the mental correctness of your child's conduct. However, the natural research of the child is categorically not worth stopping.
It is best to explain to a child in a simple and accessible form the difference between the sexes exactly when he is interested in this for the first time. It is an open book, and it is better to get information about this issue from the lips of parents.
Step 4
How do parents respond to baby kisses? If you notice that your child is kissing, then first of all, do not start to panic. If the other child doesn't protest, it's best not to get involved. Your rude and direct intervention will negatively recoup on the child's psyche. A child, to spite you, can show a really unhealthy effect on the sexual background of a kiss (sex). The negative imprint will play out in the role of sexual deviations in adulthood. It is best to be an outside observer. It is unobtrusive to stop the kiss only when the second child protests.
