Many women, having become mothers, are so absorbed in caring for their children and family that they gradually dissolve and lose themselves as a person. Then comes depression, emptiness, irritation. This is understandable, because before the birth of children, there was a completely different way of life, there was a lot of free time for yourself, but now it simply is gone. But all this is fixable. There are many ways to diversify your life without changing its new way of life, as well as to bring bright colors and daily joy into it.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not sit at home with your child all day, try to walk more. Choose different routes for your walks every day. Create fun outdoor co-op games. If your child is already old enough, organize sports or competitions in the yard, connect his peers and their parents to this.
Step 2
Make new acquaintances. New parents often appear on playgrounds, who may also lack communication. Walk together, share tips and problems on raising children, tell jokes, discuss the latest innovations in the film industry.
Step 3
If you are mobile and your child can handle long distances well, try to travel more often. It will not necessarily be a trip to the sea. You can even go to the forest for berries or mushrooms. Or visit good old friends for a tea party.
Step 4
Have holidays at home for no reason. For example, make the last Sunday of every month Kissing Day. Draw posters, inflate balloons. Armed with drums, arrange a parade and walk throughout the apartment, kissing all the household members. Throw a pajama party at home. Use your imagination and ingenuity.
Step 5
If you have good helpers at your side, leave the child with them for a couple of hours and go to a beauty salon. Get beautiful hair and nails. Even just walking around the city alone or going shopping will benefit you.
Step 6
The decree is a good time for self-realization. Listen to yourself. Try to discover your hidden talents. Maybe you have a writing talent and should try writing a book or adventure novel.
Step 7
Perhaps this is the very time when it is worth making your dream come true, for which you never had enough time.
Step 8
You can do self-development and learn Spanish or Japanese, learn to sew, knit, embroider. Yes, just take and get a new or additional education.
Step 9
Get creative, involve children in this process. Sign up for a salsa class or go to fitness, read books.
Step 10
Try to become a blogger. Maybe you have a hobby. Share your knowledge and skills with the world.
Step 11
You can find a remote job or start your own business. Now there are many opportunities to improve your financial situation without leaving your home.
Step 12
And most importantly, you must always remember that the family is happy when the mother is happy!
