Many years ago Ernest Hemingway wrote: "Work is the best medicine for all ills." And today no one has yet been able to refute this idea. Many people are saved in work from various experiences, they find their realization in this and forget about problems.
Instructions
Step 1
Work is an opportunity to change your life. It takes a lot of time alone. It allows you to make days, evenings more intense, not devoid of meaning. A person consciously devotes himself to work so as not to get bored, not to feel sadness and regret from the absence of something else. At the same time, he can change his life, because all this increases income, which changes the quality of existence.
Step 2
Interest in work also leads to the growth of professionalism. Often, work becomes not just a duty, but a hobby. A person begins to improve in this, acquires more and more knowledge, makes interesting discoveries for himself. In this case, the ability to work makes him active and purposeful. Interest from the personal sphere is shifted to the creation of something. Lonely people often easily move up the career ladder, take leading positions in the company, and earn substantial capital. Some values are replaced by others, and this does not deprive a person of joy, but brings meaning into his existence.
Step 3
Any person needs emotions, experiences, communication. If there is no society in personal life, if loved ones do not make life interesting, a person begins to look for his environment. Of course, there are various organizations where you can look for like-minded people, but it can be difficult. But at work there are always people who do one thing. At the same time, you do not need to get acquainted, look for a reason to start a conversation, or come up with some words, you can discuss the process of creating a product or service, you can talk about bosses, colleagues, plans for the future. The ease of establishing contacts is very important for many, closed people cannot easily find a common language, therefore work for them is also a place of social contacts.
Step 4
If a person is suddenly left alone, he experiences negative experiences that are difficult to hide from. Unaccustomed state crushes, pisses me off. To get over this pain, you need to find something to do, you need to do something so that both the hands and the head are involved. If there is a hobby, it helps, but if there is none, then all that remains is to go where you can implement something. It is difficult to look for a new hobby in a difficult period, but at work everything is clear and defined. Sometimes this is an opportunity to hide from experiences, a way to distract from external events.
Step 5
A person wants to be needed by someone, this is an internal need. And if there is no family, if there are no children, then this state is not satisfied. A person always worries when he realizes that he is not valuable to someone. And at this moment he begins to look for those people, the space where he will come in handy, often this is a place of work. This is a way to satisfy the need to be necessary, it is manifested very clearly in lonely people. For some, even losing their place in the enterprise can be very difficult and emotionally comparable to the death of a friend.
