In the twenty-first century, women have proved that not only men know how to make decisions and think with whom to start a family, the weaker sex also has the right to choose. And, despite the generally accepted opinion that there are several women for one representative of the stronger sex, on the way of each of us there is a certain number of men who claim our hand and heart.
Instructions
Step 1
Often we pay attention to the merits of men, but we must also remember about their shortcomings. Let's dwell on the latter in more detail. He is too hasty. There is an opinion that women are in a hurry down the aisle, but recently men are not inferior to us: literally after several dates, a marriage proposal follows, but whether this is a proposal from the heart is a question! Do not throw yourself into his arms and shout "Yes!" Think well, is it worth connecting your life with an almost unfamiliar man? Definitely, you need to get to know your friend better.
Step 2
He's helpless. Often we want to see in our chosen one a defender and a strong, reliable support, but there is a type of men who are looking for all this in a woman. Think about whether you need such a man? What can he do for you? You don't want to be the head of the family, literally!
Step 3
He is unemployed. This is the most important negative quality of every man. If you hope that he will come to his senses and find a job when you get engaged, this will not happen! You need confidence in the future and a stable income, a man without a job will not give you this. Think about whether you need a groom who cannot earn money for rings?
Step 4
He is jealous. Let's not argue that every woman wants to be jealous. Naturally, you will be pleased if your fiancé shows moderate jealousy, but, keep in mind, excessive jealousy can develop into despotism. A jealous man is psychologically unbalanced or he himself feels a sin. Your life will turn into a continuous report: where you were, with whom, why you were late from work. And forget about meetings with your friends, your chosen one will think that there you are cheating on him too! Before you stop your choice on him, take a closer look, whether his feeling of jealousy is off scale or not.
Step 5
He's addicted. Addiction is a bad quality and it doesn't matter what your fiance is dependent on: games, smoking, alcohol, mom, after all. If your chosen one cannot or does not want, even worse, to get rid of the addiction, do not hope that the wedding will change anything.
Step 6
He's aggressive. Do you need a groom who provokes you, is rude, insults, and even more so, raises a hand on you? No! Do not try to change him, practice shows that such men do not change. These are psychological problems that need to be treated, and you did not hire him as a doctor, so the choice is yours.
Step 7
How to choose a groom is up to you, feel with your heart, but think only with your head. There are flaws in every man, but if they are incorrigible, do not turn your life into a nightmare, better think about it!
