Choosing the right future life partner is a very difficult matter and requires a serious approach. In order not to go through a very unpleasant divorce procedure, you need to find a girl who will become a truly dear person.
Instructions
Step 1
Choosing a life partner is a difficult and responsible business. Therefore, you do not need to do it in the heat of the moment, so as not to regret later and not to repent. Do not forget that you take responsibility for the fate of the girl you make your bride. But it is also wrong to hope for a pure mind without attracting feelings, because a person's emotions play a huge role in his life.
Step 2
You should not run to the registry office immediately from school, because first love very rarely lasts a lifetime. Do not go on about your hormones, wait for the fervent feeling to cool down a little. First you need to decide in life, learn and find a job - before looking for a future wife. After all, while you cannot provide for your family, your parents will support you, but they are unlikely to be happy with this turn of events.
Step 3
Chat with girls, find out what they think about later life. Modern young people themselves do not strive to marry early, which is absolutely correct. They do not want to be left alone with a small child in their arms, they also need confidence in the future.
Step 4
All people are different, but some common features or type can be distinguished. You need to determine what character and temperament of a woman attracts you. To live happily ever after with a person, you need to be psychologically compatible, have a similar reaction to some events and the same views on the structure of the world.
Step 5
You are more likely to be married to someone who is similar to you than to a completely different individual. If you work hard for your future, and the bride is having fun in the nightclubs, this union will fall apart very soon.
Step 6
Pay attention to how the girl loves to relax, because you will have to spend weekends and vacations together. If you are both fans of an active lifestyle, you will find something to do and not get bored next to each other. Nature lovers will tinker at the dacha in complete harmony with themselves and with a partner. If you spend the whole weekend fishing, and your chosen one walks through museums and exhibitions, sooner or later you will begin to move away from each other.
Step 7
Do not dismiss sexual compatibility either, because this is a very important aspect of family life. Many quarrels and scandals begin because of the mismatch of needs and desires in the intimate sphere. If you have a fiery temperament, and you feel that your partner often shies away from sex, you should think about the further development of the relationship. Choose a girl who enjoys being close to you.
Step 8
A woman easily learns to manage a household if she feels the love and care of a man. If she doesn't know how to do anything at the moment, but tries and tries to cook and do needlework, do not exclude this option. There are, of course, spoiled white-handed women who do not want to damage their manicure even for the sake of a beloved man, it is difficult to re-educate such a girl. Therefore, consider in advance if you can hire a housekeeper to live clean and full.
