Bouquets of flowers, first dates and kisses. "She is mine!" - screams your heart, jumping out of your chest. But it's too early to rejoice. You can lose your beloved at any time, if you do not take into account some very important points in the relationship between a man and a woman. Which? Let's get a look.
Necessary
The book "I hate you - be with me! Overcoming the crisis in the family and in life", D. B. Novikov, 2009
Instructions
Step 1
Do not forget the simple truth that women love not only with their ears, but also with their nose. If, in addition to sweet words about love, you delight her with a pleasant aroma of your body, I think this will add points to your piggy bank. What to do for this? It is clear to anyone: take a shower more often and use eau de toilette in moderation.
Step 2
Do not bother your beloved, trying to spend every free minute with her. Many women appreciate the opportunity to be alone, to do something of their own, feminine, to dream, finally. In addition, you, who have your own schedule and your hobbies, will be more interesting to her. But don't go too far - you shouldn't get too far away either. At some point, getting bored, your woman may find a replacement for you.
Step 3
Be mindful of your appearance. Crumpled shirts, unclean shoes will only push your partner away, and not induce her to take pity on you and rush to wash your clothes. And going to the gym will once again make you work on yourself, maintaining health and strength for your future life together, which may not take place if your muscles are flabby and your appearance makes you cry.
Step 4
Talk about more than just things that interest you. Take an interest in her life, her problems. The ability to listen attracts the interlocutor, and your attention will not go unnoticed. Ask your beloved about her family, work, hobbies - she will be happy to share with you what worries her. Tell us about yourself, your hobbies and interests, it will probably be interesting to her.
Step 5
Let your girl dream. Talk to her about an upcoming trip to the theater, a summer trip to another country. Joint plans will inspire her, and she will wait for the minutes and hours that she spends with you. You can even hint at a wedding if you see that your girlfriend is already ready for a serious relationship.
Step 6
Be a man! It is impossible to shift the solution of all problems onto the shoulders of a woman. Believe me, it is more pleasant for her to hear: “I want to go to the cinema today” than “Darling, as you want, we will do it”. After listening to her doubts, make a decision yourself, she will be grateful to you.
