Despite the whole volumes written by experts about what exactly attracts men to women, much in this matter still remains to a certain extent a mystery. So, sometimes it is difficult to understand why an outwardly unremarkable lady wins the hearts of a considerable number of gentlemen, and some clever and beautiful woman is left without a pair.
There are many myths regarding what exactly the representatives of the stronger sex in ladies like. They are rooted in the female consciousness and are already considered by many to be an immutable truth. Meanwhile, a girl thinking in this way may face serious difficulties trying to translate these "mythological" advice into practice in an effort to please the opposite sex.
For example, it is believed that men prefer written beauties with ideal shapes. To be convinced of the incorrectness of such a statement, it is enough to look around. A fair number of "gray mice" or, in any case, ladies who are far from model parameters, meet their love and find long-term happiness in a conjugal union with the chosen one.
The concept of "beautiful woman" is rather blurry. Each man has his own personal ideas about beauty, sometimes very specific. In addition, her own chosen one always seems to be a beauty.
Every man has different tastes in terms of female appearance. Someone is crazy about brunettes, while someone likes blonde hair. One loves long-legged and big-breasted beauties, while the other is impressed by girls with a small breast size, and the length of their lower limbs does not care at all.
In addition, mature (and not so much in age as in mental development) men are not primarily interested in a woman's appearance. Of course, they need the lady not to have a completely repulsive appearance and know how to take care of herself. However, spiritual qualities, including charm, are already coming to the fore for them.
A lady endowed with it may not be a noteworthy beauty, but she will have such a strong charm that the representatives of the stronger sex will be involuntarily fascinated by her. The main thing that will attract them is her amazing naturalness. In the manners of such a woman there will be nothing far-fetched and deliberate desire to please. She won't necessarily have tons of makeup on - if she does, it won't be noticeable. However, she will literally exude her femininity.
Many have different meanings to the above concept. For example, they include aggressive sexuality or even bitchiness. In reality, femininity is a set of qualities that women are naturally endowed with (although many, being under the rule of myths, actually renounce this part of their nature). This includes kindness, the ability to share love, gentleness, sincerity, and a number of other character traits.
The main "magnet" that attracts a man to a certain lady is her unconditional femininity, that is. full possession of the qualities inherent in her gender.
If a lady is truly feminine, she will not have to think about how exactly to attract men. It will come out naturally for her. She is smart enough to be interesting to talk to. She knows how and when to show her own emotions. Her nature is multifaceted. However, it is more important that among all its advantages will be the main thing - the ability to demonstrate to the representative of the stronger sex his superiority. After all, it is precisely such a companion that every man is looking for - a woman next to whom he will feel like a hero and who will not infringe on his pride.
Also, do not follow the lead of the myth, according to which a lady, in order to please the opposite sex, must be one continuous surprise. Of course, it can be interesting to spend time with such a woman, but for a serious relationship, hardly anyone will consider her candidacy. Men value stability. The unpredictability of the chosen one for them, as a rule, is tantamount to hysteria. They are impressed when the beloved remains herself in any life situations.
