A sociable and confident guy who does not hesitate to be the first to approach and strike up a conversation will not go unnoticed by the fair sex. However, there is another type of young people - they would like to be able to talk calmly with girls, but they are afraid to do it.
Calm, only calm
Communicating with the fair sex is a pleasant pastime, and not a responsible task that you should never fail, otherwise you will be covered with indelible shame. If you don’t take a conversation with the person you like as the only chance in your life to find a life partner, it will be much easier for you to behave more courageously. Remember that even if this time you fail and the conversation does not work out, you can, referring to the deeds, leave your lady, and make another attempt at the next meeting.
Appearance
Your appearance can be quite pleasant to others, but if you personally do not like the way you look, this will interfere with calm communication with the opposite sex. The solution is very simple - do everything to please yourself. Go in for sports, change your hairstyle or dye your hair, buy stylish clothes and new shoes, get your dream piercing or tattoo. Feeling attractive will affect your communication as well. It will be easier for you to approach the girls and talk to them. And even if the changes in your appearance seem to be successful only to you, self-confidence will still make you more successful.
Broad outlook
The fear that the conversation won't stick is stopping a lot of guys. Indeed, in order to interest the person you like it is not enough to come up and say “hello”, you need to come up with an interesting topic for conversation. The way out of this situation is very simple - expand your horizons. Read books, watch new movies, flip through magazines, attend concerts, periodically check news sites. Be open to new things, and then you will have something to say during the conversation. Even if you don't have common interests, you can retell the plot of the novel that you liked, or ask your lady what she thinks about deforestation in Madagascar.
For the walls to help
If you've asked a girl out on a date, meet her in a familiar setting. It can be a cafe, where you visit regularly, or a park where you know the location of all the paths. In a familiar environment, you can feel like a master of the situation, help the girl navigate and tell her what is better to order or where to go to admire the picturesque landscape.
