Sometimes, having found the perfect girl, men face an unexpected problem: the young lady is beautiful, smart, cheerful, free, but at the same time does not want to perceive the person in love with her as a potential partner.
Instructions
Step 1
First you need to understand how the girl perceives you. There are many ways to do this. You can talk with her friends or relatives, study her reaction to you, interpret certain signs of sympathy and antipathy. Finally, you can just ask her the question herself.
Step 2
Having found out in what quality the young lady sees you (for example, as a friend or brother, as an interlocutor, colleague, classmate in trousers), it is necessary to determine her ideas about the man she would like to see next to her. You can extract this information, for example, by discussing with her literary or movie characters, mutual acquaintances, relatives. If your chosen one is not closed in herself, then you will easily understand what qualities in men attract her. Perhaps it will turn out to be the presence of money, an expensive car, strength, intelligence, the ability to defend, an interesting hobby - whatever.
Step 3
The same should be done with negative qualities. Inability to prove one’s right, lethargy and passivity rarely attract girls. Try to find weaknesses in yourself and get rid of them. As for the attractive features from the previous point, they need to be developed. In the end, for the sake of a beautiful girl, you can change jobs, sign up for a gym or library, learn self-defense.
Step 4
Unfortunately, self-improvement alone may not be enough. We'll have to position ourselves in a new way in a relationship with a girl. It means that one should behave not like a friend or colleague, but like a caring man: give flowers, invite on dates, treat in a cafe, shake hands. In general, you need to remind the object of your attention that your roles are not limited to two sexless friends, but clearly delineated: you are a man, she is a woman, and her reactions should be appropriate. Moreover, you should constantly create situations where this role difference will be most noticeable, and quietly force her to make decisions. With enough patience and persistence, a positive result is almost guaranteed.
