Women's mystery at all times attracted and intrigued men. Women have always reserved the right to be mysterious, depriving men of this prerogative. In fact, mysteriousness is one of the main female ways to attract attention, seduce, and then, through this method, keep a man around her for as long as you like. Every man is sure that someday he will be able to unravel all the things that a woman builds in front of him. So, while he is busy with clues, he stays with her. It can last a lifetime. There are several tricks on how to remain a mystery and not get bored with a man.
Instructions
Step 1
Intrigue. Create situations in which the man has many questions. A win-win when the questions are directed at him. It's no secret that men love to talk about their loved ones. You can drop the phrase: “Today I understood what is your highlight. And I also noticed one amazing feature in you. " Naturally, there will be questions “What is this? What is my highlight”and so on. Your task is to fog up and get away from an instant response. Say, for example, "I'll tell you about it tonight" or "You will soon find out." If the conversation takes place on the phone, quickly say that the boss is calling you urgently (or bad communication), and you cannot finish. Be sure you will not get out of a man's head all day (week, month).
Step 2
Reasonable stealth. For all the openness of your character, you should not lay out all the details of your life to a man. Soul wide open - not for this case. A man, with all the cordiality of your relationship, should know that somewhere out there, in a space where he is not next to you, your life is flowing - unknown to him, mysterious, with its own events, routine, with many unknowns. You shouldn't hang on your phone and tell him about your every step. Better to let him ask you about everything in the evening. But here, too, detailed reports and reports are not needed, let him leave "blank spots" on your personal territory.
Step 3
Unpredictability. If a man knows in advance what you will say and how to act, he will quickly lose interest in you. For example, he invited you to go to the racetrack, car show, etc. If you do not support his interest, and you do not want to go there, you have every right to do so. But do not rush to tell him about it. Promise you will go, and then … change your mind. Are you afraid that he will be offended? And you will turn refusal into an act of declaration of love. Hug, kiss, give your word that next time you will definitely go, that you will miss him, that he is the best, etc. There will be no trace of resentment. He can just shake his head: "Oh, these women, you never know what to expect from them." Know, they like feminine eccentricity. Abrupt changes in decisions and moods are what makes a woman different from a man, and they always show interest in these attacks.
Step 4
Endurance. Do not send instant replies to his sms. Don't rush to instantly reply to his email. And try to answer the phone call “I can't speak now” or the laconic “Call back later”. Know that he will be lost in conjectures and burn out with impatience to find out what is so important that distracts you from him - the Sun of your whole life.
(Attention! SMS and letters here do not mean business messages or messages containing serious information).
Step 5
Appearance and behavior. Know how to surprise. For example, a man is used to seeing you in black (this is your style). Without prior announcements, appear before him in red. The shock and shock of such a change are assured. From now on, he will be constantly waiting - what else can you throw out? Change your hairstyle, hair color, skirt length from time to time. You can also surprise at home: you don't have to wear the same robe for years. A pair of cute pajamas and three or two peignoirs (or beautiful underwear) will not leave him indifferent. And if you dare to periodically arrange oriental dances or striptease in front of him, he is unlikely to want to change something in his life.
