Some men are attracted and intrigued by female mystery. This is a kind of one way to attract attention to yourself, a method of seducing and winning a man's heart. After all, while he is trying to figure out all the things a woman is building, he stays with her. And this can take a lifetime. There are several ways that you can remain a mystery to a man and not lose his interest.
Instructions
Step 1
Intrigue. From time to time, try to create situations because of which the man will have a large number of questions, especially if it concerns himself. For example, you can say the phrase: “Today I guessed what your secret is. And I also noticed one great feature in you. " After that, most likely, you will hear: “Yes? And what is it? What is my secret”and so on. Your task now is to immediately avoid answering. For example, say, "I'll tell you about it at dinner," or "You will find out soon enough."
Step 2
Be secretive, even if you have an open nature - this is not a reason to tell a man all the details of your life. He should think that somewhere, where he is not next to you, your life unknown to him flows. Don't call him every minute and tell him about every step you take. Let him ask questions in the evening. But here, do not lay it all out, for a man there should be "blank spots" on your personal territory.
Step 3
Be unpredictable. If a man knows what you think and how you can act, his interest in you will quickly disappear. Most often, men like feminine eccentricity and a sharp change in mood or decision. The main thing is not to overdo it.
Step 4
Try to be self-possessed. Wait a while before answering his SMS or e-mail. And you can periodically answer the call: “I can't talk now” or “Call back later”.
Step 5
Learn to amaze. Change your appearance and behavior. For example, if you constantly wear black clothes, try to unexpectedly appear in front of your man in a red dress. He will be stunned. Experiment with hairstyle, hair color, dress length, etc. Surprise at home too. Buy a couple of cute new pajamas or a nice lingerie set. This will not leave a man indifferent.
Step 6
Try not to go to extremes. In an effort to remain mysterious for a man, be sure to observe the measure. If there are too many riddles, the man may get tired of solving them, and he will look for something easier.
