Meeting the man of your dreams can be somewhat problematic. And when such a person appears on the horizon, everything in the world is forgotten: the advice of friends, maternal warnings. Children's dreams become reality, here it is - happiness! But suddenly, all at once, everything crumbles: the realization comes that you are far from the only one with your ideal handsome man.
Womanizer are not born - they become
There are a number of reasons why a man can turn into a frivolous windy rake-womanizer:
- An overabundance of female attention. In such an outcome, whatever one may say, only women are to blame. To marry a handsome, intelligent man who knows how to earn money is a natural female need. But, unfortunately, statistics show that there is a colossal shortage of males per capita of the female population. A more or less decent guy enjoys unprecedented popularity among girls. Well, how can you not start working on several fronts at the same time?
- Problems with self-esteem. All complexes from childhood. Perhaps even in kindergarten, the boy Petya confessed his love to the girl Masha, and she rejected all his advances. And since then, having already become a full-fledged man, he takes revenge on the entire female sex for the offense he once received. Women for him are just a trophy with which he can trump in a circle of friends.
You will not explain to such a person that he is the meaning of your life. His vision of the world is deeply distorted, and, most likely, the help of a psychologist will be needed to solve his problems.
- Fear of close emotional relationships. This fear can arise for various reasons: someone has experienced the betrayal of a beloved woman, someone has lost her forever due to certain circumstances, and someone simply believes that affection is the lot of the weak.
Men simply turn off their feelings, preventing women from entering the most secluded corners of their souls. And if anyone is lucky enough to find out the little secrets of a man's heart, he is immediately, without explanation, enrolled in the category of the former.
Womanizer: instructions for use
How to behave with a daring heartthrob and protect your fragile heart from a deep scar?
Firstly, in order not to be disappointed in a man, you do not need to be fascinated by him. Do not neglect female intuition: if you notice that your man is looking at other women, do not turn a blind eye to it. Hence, there are big problems with his unsatisfied libido.
The best way out is to part with a womanizing man, because he cannot be corrected, unless he himself understands that he is living wrong.
Secondly, if you already decided to build a relationship with a womanizer, keep yourself in control. Do not praise him with or without reason, because the womanizer drags after the woman only as long as he is interested. Keep him in good shape: step back to a safe distance without annoying calls and messages. At the same time, do not humiliate or insult him. Be Switzerland - remain neutral towards your chosen one.
Try first of all to become a friend to him, and only then an ardent lover. Perhaps, although unlikely, he will be hooked by the depths of your soul, and you will not become another entry in the notebook of his love victories.
