Have you noticed that there are many meetings in life, but even more partings? Not all whirlwind romances develop into serious relationships. It's easy for you to get attention and go on dates a couple of times, but what next? And then - you need to keep him next to you, if you want the development of promising relationships. How can this be done?
Instructions
Step 1
Mysteriousness or zest
Become unpredictable for him, do what he never expects from you, be unusual. Are you interested in a guy who blows dust off you, looks into your mouth and repeats his love every minute? So he needs an intrigue in a relationship and a girl is a mystery.
Step 2
Wealth of the inner world
Read more literature, listen to music, visit museums, dance - be a well-rounded personality. Do not think that you can keep him on one bed, naked sex gets boring too quickly. You will not be able to interest him for a long time if you have nothing to talk about. The wider the circle of your interests, the more chances you have to keep it close. "Pacifiers" are not interesting to anyone.
Step 3
Ability to leave at the right time
Leave immediately as soon as you see that his eyes are sparkling with interest. Act like a Mexican TV show - they always end at the most intriguing moment. Never give in to persuasion, for example, to stay for another hour or sit on the bench for a while. And he will want, as soon as possible, to meet with you again.
Step 4
Self-esteem
Give him freedom and personal space. You must understand that he has a family, a job, or a school. Do not hang on his neck or run after him - do not lose your self-esteem. You don't want him to start avoiding you, do you?
Step 5
Know how to rejoice with him
Praise him and genuinely admire him. Do you like it when your achievements and successes are noticed? So he also "loves with his ears", no matter what they say. Let him know that you are proud of him, that he is the best for you.
Step 6
Ability to control oneself
Control your emotions, do not turn into a grumpy aunt. Sooner or later, he will begin to be annoyed by your unshakable demands, and the relationship will cease to bring joy. With you it should be easy and fun for him, every meeting should excite him, and you are a girl for him - a holiday.
Step 7
Wisdom
Show understanding for his problems, try to solve them together. Does he try to understand you and help you, if necessary? So you become a support for him, and you will no longer have to puzzle over the topic of how to keep him. Not a single guy will voluntarily leave a girl who has become a support for him in life.
Step 8
Respect
Give the guy the freedom to choose, trust him, do not throw tantrums, treat him with respect - and he himself will strive to be near you.
