Very often women do not see the whole problem as a whole and do not agree to the only correct solution. And in order for them to become allies, and not enemies, they must be persuaded, persuaded, including by affection and cunning.
Instructions
Step 1
Start a conversation about your problem. Explain the problem to the woman as clearly and intelligibly as possible. Offer your version of her solution, ask her to suggest her options. Start discussing with her all the solutions you have come up with. Explain to her all the consequences that may come if you accept one way or another. Naturally, promote your plan, talk about its positive aspects. In other words, act with logic, operate with facts, give arguments.
Step 2
If the problem is really important, persuade the woman with the help of people whose opinion is important to her. Invite her mother, brother, sister, friends to the discussion. At the same time, first conduct reconnaissance and find out the opinion of these people about your problem. Find a book, article, website on the Internet, on the pages of which the correctness of your solution to the question will be proved. Go together for a consultation with a specialist on this issue: a doctor, a lawyer, a psychoanalyst, etc.
Step 3
If the problem does not require decisive action, try giving the woman freedom of action to implement the options that she believes are the only right ones. If she is really wrong, she will soon figure it out and be forced to agree with the man. Or just get tired if there are too many options. The most difficult case is when a woman tries all the options, makes sure that they are wrong, but will never agree with the man. He will think that he set it all up. In this case, do not waste energy on persuasion.
Step 4
Often when persuading a beloved and loving woman, persuasion, affection, kisses help. If a woman for some reason does not want to delve deeply into the problem, the options for its solution and their consequences, persuasion can achieve more and much faster. Make a compromise if necessary. Offer her an action plan that combines both solutions to the problem. Or agree to concessions on something else. For example, promise her to take on some household chores, take her to a restaurant or theater, or buy something.
