Falling in love with two men at once, you risk significantly complicating your life, especially if your chosen ones are in competition with each other. It is necessary to show determination and make the final choice.
Instructions
Step 1
Think and try to decide which of the men you would like to start a family with. Often, love turns out to be a fleeting feeling that passes after a while, so you need to listen to your inner instinct. Consider which of the men is more reliable and will become a good husband, the father of your future children.
Step 2
Determine who you are afraid of losing more. It is unlikely that you miss both men equally much, you are unlikely to be frank with both in the same way. Most likely, you are always expecting one of them especially strongly and are truly happy when he is around.
Step 3
Analyze the relationship with both men. Think about which of them you fight less often, who cares about you better. Try to be objective, as under the influx of feelings, people often turn a blind eye to the obvious flaws of their beloved. If one of the men made serious scandals or raised a hand against you, be sure to take this into account and make a choice in favor of a calmer and more flexible man.
Step 4
See how men groom you. Perhaps you love both, but only one of them gives you flowers, arranges romantic dates, says pleasant compliments, and the other only pretends that you are dear to him too. You can even arrange a small competition to entrust the men with something important and see which of them will do the best.
Step 5
Consider the housing and financial condition of men, their marital status. You should not rush headlong on a married man's neck, hoping that he will soon leave for you. At the same time, a single man with an empty wallet is also not the best solution. Try to put your feelings aside and soberly think with which of them it will be easier and more interesting for you to live, for which of them you are ready to give everything that you have, and in return get a happy and full of love life.
