Even if you don't believe in love at first sight, you may meet an interesting and attractive young man with whom you want to spend your free time, and possibly develop a serious relationship. Love comes unexpectedly …
Instructions
Step 1
Find out about him. Perhaps you have mutual friends from whom you will receive the necessary information about the guy and understand whether it is worth attracting his attention to yourself or it is better to retreat before it is too late so as not to look for unnecessary problems on your head. If this is not possible, then watch him from the sidelines and try to understand what habits he has, what he loves. In the future, use this knowledge for a closer acquaintance.
Step 2
Appear in his life. Unobtrusively and "accidentally" bump into him in a circle of friends, at work or in a cafe. The guy should notice you, but not realize that you are doing this on purpose. A certain amount of mystery must be present. But do not overdo it, otherwise he will think that you have nothing else to do, except to flicker in front of his eyes. Remember that a woman's obsession is perceived by men as an encroachment on their freedom.
Step 3
Watch yourself. Dress in stylish and beautiful clothes, but not flashy-defiant, so that you do not get the impression that you are alone and go to extremes from despair. Give preference to modest makeup and not pretentious hairstyles, so that he can appreciate your sophistication and sophistication.
Step 4
Be positive. Laugh more often and enjoy life. Of course, everything is fine in moderation, because uncontrollable laughter can scare a guy away and make him doubt your seriousness. But he will also not like gloom, because at the beginning of a relationship, a guy is definitely not interested in solving your difficulties.
Step 5
Don't get carried away with flirting. A little flirtatiousness doesn't hurt, but a pronounced flirtation can make a guy think that you treat everyone this way, and he is just another "victim." Be sincere and natural.
Step 6
Show respect. For any man, respect is the key to a strong relationship. Even if you know a little, be respectful in small things: do not interrupt him, listen carefully when he says something, do not make fun of his shortcomings or mistakes, and do not tell that he trusts your friends.
Step 7
Maintain your dignity. Remember that there are guys who are simply flattered by the attention of girls and do not want a serious relationship, so be prudent in trying to get attention. This may not be the guy you want.
