The behavior of their own child sometimes infuriates parents. They start screaming and spanking him, but the next day the bad deed can happen again. This happens because you also need to be able to scold children. It is the correct punishment that will lead to good behavior in the future.
Instructions
Step 1
Restrain your emotions. Being a parent is hard work, and your first priority is to develop iron patience. In order to grow a full-fledged member of society, you need to watch your words and actions in moments of punishment. Sometimes you, unbeknownst to yourself, can offend and humiliate a child, which will affect not only your future relationship, but also the formation of his personality.
Step 2
Do not Cry. Raising your voice is not always possible to achieve something. It is not necessary to swear, switching to raised tones. Talking to your child will be much more effective. Stand in such a way as to look him in the eye (you can sit down or lift him up on a chair), and explain what his behavior was wrong, why this should not be done and why adults condemn it. This kind of conversation affects children better than any screams and cuffs.
Step 3
Don't let someone else scold your little one. There are mom and dad who can criticize actions and say how not to do. The rest of the aunts and uncles should educate their children, and not encroach on yours. Do not let him be offended, because this is how he perceives what you allowed Aunt Masha to yell at him.
Step 4
Don't treat all wrongs as one. Every child should be punished, but in no case mention that he constantly fails, that he is clumsy or does not know how to behave. One offense - one reproach.
Step 5
Be fair. It would not be entirely correct to deprive of your favorite game or watching cartoons for the fact that the child forgot to put the cup in the sink. Try to choose punishments commensurate with the wrongdoing.
Step 6
Avoid physical punishment. Yes, you can spank your child, abruptly and rudely drag him away from the "crime scene", but you shouldn't. This will only intimidate him and make you fearful, which is unlikely to lead to good family relations.
