More recently, it seemed to a woman that she and her husband had a strong, loving family, which they bypassed by problems and hardships. And suddenly - like a bolt from the blue - she finds out that her husband is cheating on her, then it comes to divorce. The woman feels as if the whole vast, cruel world is up in arms against her. How to live now?
Instructions
Step 1
Yes, it is unbearably difficult for you now. But still try to pull yourself together. Your sad situation is by no means unique. Unfortunately, no woman is immune from this, even if she is an example of all conceivable and inconceivable virtues. A dazzling beauty, a skillful, passionate lover, an excellent hostess, a caring, understanding companion. It would seem that the very idea that a husband can cheat on such a wife borders on absurdity, nevertheless, it happens!
Step 2
Understand: nothing irreparable has happened. Thank God, this is not death, not a serious, incurable disease. There is no need to despair and curse evil destiny. Has the first, most powerful, flurry of emotions passed? The worst pain has dulled a little? Wept, complained to relatives, friends, girlfriends? And that's enough. Pull yourself together! The role of the inconsolable sufferer will hardly suit you.
Step 3
Remember: there are enough reliable men in the world who are able to appreciate you. The fact that you are unlucky with some particular representative of the stronger sex does not mean that all men are fickle. Search, and you will surely find!
Step 4
Do not lock yourself in four walls, do not be alone with your grief and problems. On the contrary, try to be in society as often as possible! At the very least, to get to know the very man who, quite possibly, can give you real happiness.
Step 5
Find yourself an interesting hobby, change your image. Don't be afraid to experiment! An original hairstyle, a radical change of wardrobe can literally transform any woman.
Step 6
Well, if your ex-husband realizes his mistake and wants to return. It depends only on you whether to start all over again or not. If you impartially and self-critically admit that there is a share of your fault in the breakup, it will probably be better to understand and forgive. If the resentment and wounded pride, even after a long time, are too strong, it is better to refuse. In any case, no one has the right to impose a solution on you. Do what your mind and heart tell you to do.
