The relationship between a guy and a girl starts out so romantic. Loving glances, timid touches, gentle kisses, warm words. Time passes, and one day it all comes to an end. Why is this happening? Why do some relationships end in marriage and others in separation? Love dies for several reasons.
The disappearance of passion
Very often, such a wonderful feeling as love disappears after the end of the “flower-bouquet period”. People get used to each other, the experience and trepidation that arose during meetings passes.
Relationships become calm, passion either disappears altogether, or manifests itself much less often. Someone from the couple has a desire to re-experience those first feelings, and he just leaves in search of new love.
Lack of understanding
A large number of couples manage to maintain their passion even after the "flower-bouquet period". But another problem arises - a lack of understanding. This is a very serious problem that destroys not only relationships but also marriages.
The couple does not understand each other. They have different views on life, different principles, temperaments and characters. All this prevents them from communicating normally. Different hobbies contribute to the fact that they spend most of their free time separately. Quarrels and scandals begin. This is followed by parting.
Lack of freedom
It also happens that excessive love and care begin to put pressure on one of the couple. A person does not have enough free time and personal space. He begins to strive for loneliness or a frivolous relationship.
To prevent this from happening, you cannot put pressure on your soul mate, you must give her free time and the right to choose.
Lies, treason, betrayal
If passion can be revived, understanding can be nurtured, and freedom can be replenished, then after betrayal, the couple has too few chances for a happy joint future.
It is impossible to completely forgive and forever forget betrayal and treason. Lying on the part of a loved one also hurts and remains in the memory. All this pain remains in the soul and poisons any relationship that is no longer destined to last long.
The appearance of children
The birth of a child is always a very important and happy moment in the life of lovers. But, oddly enough, it is he who often marks the decline in relationships.
Parents get tired all the time, do not get enough sleep at night. They have too many worries, they don't have enough time for each other. If before they went on romantic dates, walked in the park, dined in a restaurant, watched movies about love together, now they do not have the opportunity to spend time so freely. Quarrels and misunderstandings can arise. The couple has so many problems and worries that love disappears somewhere.
Love can pass for various reasons. In fact, there are many of them. But remember, if you meet your true love, i.e. the love of your life, it will not disappear anywhere, and every year it will become stronger and stronger.
