People who have been in relationships for a long time can sometimes quarrel with each other. This phenomenon is quite natural, but in no case should it destroy love.
Instructions
Step 1
If you understand that your relationship with your loved one began to gradually collapse, first of all think about what exactly could lead to such consequences. Probably, you and your significant other did not listen to each other's requests, underestimated your love and neglected your feelings. Once you figure out the cause of your conflicts, you can surely get rid of them.
Step 2
Hugging and touching your loved one will also help you maintain a relationship. Remember that physical contact brings people closer together. It improves mood and promotes the production of the hormone oxytocin, which affects bonding and attachment. Some people believe that stable intimacy contributes to the maintenance of a marriage, although in fact it is not at all the main role in a good relationship. You will enjoy your partner when you constantly maintain tenderness with him. Kiss and hug each other, these simple steps will help you achieve marital happiness.
Step 3
To maintain a crumbling relationship with your lover, try to spend your free time together. Moreover, you do not have to be alone within the walls of your home. Make plans for the weekend, visit various entertainment events and places together, go to the cinema and go for walks without turning off your cell phones. The more positive emotions you get from a joint vacation, the stronger your love will become.
Step 4
Also, to keep your family together, try to learn to enjoy any pleasant little things. A sense of humor has a positive effect on tensions. If you are with your loved one and you feel that a conflict is brewing between you, try to relieve the tension with a joke. However, remember that there are some things you shouldn't laugh at, as this behavior may seem like frivolity.
Step 5
Learn to behave correctly during conflict situations. In no case should you blame your loved one for everything that happens. Never humiliate or insult him, and during misunderstandings and quarrels, try not to raise your voice and do not give out negative emotions. You must find compromises that help you solve your problems. Remember that trouble should not be at stake for your love and affection. Work on your relationship and then you can be happily married.
