Every woman dreams of love, of a serious, stable relationship. We all want to be taken care of, protected, protected and solved our problems. And even the most self-confident business woman, independent and independent, dreams of reciprocity, sincerity and support. But desires in personal relationships do not come true for everyone. Parting, previous grievances and betrayal make it difficult to start a new life, start a family and trust a man again.
Instructions
Step 1
The first step towards a happy life with your loved one should be forgiveness. Forgive all the men who have ever hurt you (including your father). In no case do not hold them angry, do not feed and do not grow a feeling of hatred within yourself. Because you accumulate negative emotions in your heart, it will only be worse for you.
Step 2
Get rid of the feeling of dependence on the man who is next to you. That is, be able to say the word "no" at the right moment if you don't like something or don't want to do something. Do not allow yourself to be manipulated, avoid over-obedience. Be self-sufficient, and then your loved one will respect you and listen to your opinion.
Step 3
In a relationship, you should always remember that a man and a woman think and perceive everything in completely different ways. For example, when you sincerely want to make it clear to him that you do not like his scattered socks around the room, the man, in turn, understands this as a personal insult, and you just wanted order. Therefore, try to understand your chosen one, periodically putting yourself in his place.
Step 4
You don't need to tell your man how unhappy you are with your short legs, imperfect waist, or big nose. Even if you are imperfect (which is quite normal for an earthly person), in no case should he guess about it. You must radiate inner confidence and superiority over other women. And then your man himself will soon believe in your exclusivity and will consider you ideal.
Step 5
Ask any man what quality he values most in a woman. And they will most likely answer you: cunning and cleverness. It is truly a woman's greatest gift, helping to govern, guide a man, and avoid unnecessary conflict. The ability to shut up on time, soften the situation or say an affectionate word is what you should definitely learn for the sake of a relationship.
