More recently, married women devoted themselves to their family and did not think about a career. This was done by men. Modern women, due to circumstances and desires, are forced to look for optimal solutions in order to remain “the best mother”, while climbing the career ladder.
Instructions
Step 1
Stay in the “best mom” status for as long as possible. Psychologists recommend that mothers stay with their child until three, and even better until five. During this period of his life, the foundations of a person's personality are laid, interests, character, values are formed. You will be able not only to observe the development of the baby, but also to lay the best in him. In addition, children who grew up with their mother, and not in a nursery or with a nanny, feel much more confident in life. However, avoid increased guardianship and the imposition of your attitude to life, leave the child his right to make mistakes and gain his own experience.
Step 2
Do not immerse yourself in the life of your child, forgetting about your attachments and interests. Watch yourself. Some young mothers for some reason cease to monitor their appearance, not to mention personal growth. Meanwhile, while on parental leave, you can and should take care of yourself in every sense. Learn what you can use to advance your career. For example, fill in the gaps in some knowledge and skills, learn a foreign language, or, finally, start systematically doing something that you often do not have enough time for. This is important if you intend to pursue a career. By going about your business, you will also make it clear to the child that you should have your own time.
Step 3
Before you go to work, assign responsibilities to your family members. Hire a nanny, housekeeper, if you understand that your family cannot cope with some everyday problems on their own.
Step 4
Choose the best option. He will allow, devoting himself to the child, to find time and opportunities for his professional growth and not to forget about her husband and the rest of the family. Work part-time or several days a week. With this regime, children will receive enough mother's warmth and will understand that you may have other activities that indirectly contribute to caring for them.
Step 5
Organize all your time properly. Calculate the stress you will experience working or teaching children and family. Don't forget to rest. Never deny yourself a night's sleep. Feelings of constant fatigue can poison the life of you, your family, and all the people with whom you communicate. So it will be very difficult to maintain the status of "best mom" and climb the career ladder.
