Having a new family member is a big test for a relationship. The most difficult is the first year after the birth of the child. Problems are associated with changing roles in the family and adapting to them. A woman pays more attention to her child than to her husband, which is also a reason for quarrels. Hormonal changes and sleepless nights also do not help strengthen relationships. But every problem has a solution.
Instructions
Step 1
First, a woman should always remember that after giving birth, her body is rebuilt again. Childbirth itself is stressful for the body. The hormone balance should also return to a non-pregnant woman. And any hormonal change is reflected in behavior. If a woman realizes that at the moment she is not even quite adequate, then many problems can be avoided. If it seems that the partner is doing everything in spite, wanting to offend, then you should take a break. Do something that distracts and calms. Someone is reassured by cleaning, washing dishes, someone taking a shower or a new hairstyle. The main thing is to pause. And after that, having calmed down, think over everything again. And many problems will disappear. It turns out that many universal grievances are nothing more than a trifle.
Step 2
Secondly, a man must remember that his wife is now slightly inadequate. And the tears flowing from her eyes for the slightest reason and even for no reason are not necessarily a sign of extreme hysteria. Often a woman herself does not understand where these tears come from in her eyes and how to deal with them. You need to treat this state of a woman with sympathy. Try to support her, if possible, facilitate her entry into the new status of not only the wife, but also the mother.
Step 3
Third, a woman should not forget that she has a husband. And he still needs her as a beloved woman. Conversations should not be limited only to the child and his well-being. Do not forget to be interested in your husband's affairs, his thoughts and interests. You need to devote time to him alone. At least a little, at least sometimes, but such a time must necessarily be. A man should feel that his woman needs him even after the birth of a child, that he is loved by her.
Step 4
Fourthly, a man should remember that next to him is a woman, and not a nanny, dishwasher, cook, cleaner, and so on. A woman also needs to rest sometimes. To remind her of this and to give her pleasure, it will sometimes be sufficient to take care of the child, and let the woman stay in the bathroom for two hours in a row. And so that no one and nothing bothers her. Or let him go to the hairdresser. Or make breakfast for your beloved.
