So that your young family does not fall apart soon after the wedding, you need to consciously approach its creation. It is important to think over many aspects that allow spouses to harmoniously exist together, give birth and raise healthy and smart children, and develop as a person.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not assume that first falling in love is a reason to create a marriage. There is no need to rush things. You can run on dates, call each other every ten minutes. But in order to start a family, it takes time to test feelings. You must understand that you want to be with this person always, to share difficulties and joys with him, to give birth to children from him.
Step 2
In addition, a family in which the spouses are still quite young, immature as individuals, will not be able to exist for a long time, because in a relationship you need to be able to sacrifice your interests, forgive and endure. Work on yourself. Read more literature on psychology and family relationships.
Step 3
Before getting married, you need to think about the financial well-being of your future family. Therefore, first get a good education, and then get a permanent job, because you will need to be responsible not only for yourself, but also for your children.
Step 4
Monitor your health, lead a correct lifestyle (give up alcohol and cigarettes). Get tested by a doctor. This will enable you to have healthy babies.
Step 5
It is no secret that in modern society, many families cannot have children. There are many reasons for this: early and numerous abortions, promiscuous sex, alcohol, drug or cigarette use. Think about your behavior before marriage.
Step 6
Surely all young families dream of their cozy home. But only a few can afford it. As a result, they are forced to live with the parents of the husband or wife. Relationships often do not work out, and young spouses part. Therefore, think over the question of where you will start a family, where your children will live. Perhaps it is worth discussing with your loved one the registration of a mortgage or resolve this issue together with the parents of two families.
Step 7
Discuss all the details of your coexistence, check the relationship, take your time. All this will allow you to create a strong family.
