Shyness adorns a girl, but it can become a stumbling block in the improvement of her personal life. The fairer sex should find the reason for excessive modesty and try to eradicate it.
Necessary
- -Nice dress,
- -accessories.
Instructions
Step 1
Being shy isn't too bad, guys like shy ladies who need a special touch. However, do not overdo it, everything should be in moderation. If you like a young man who shows signs of attention in every possible way, smile at him more, take part in the dialogue, tell a few interesting facts from life. If you don't have the courage to ask your guy counter questions, limit yourself to tactful answers.
Step 2
If the guy you like does not dare to speak first, try to communicate with him in the presence of strangers. Ask one of your friends to start a dialogue, and then join the conversation. Try to behave openly, pay attention to non-verbal gestures - do not cross your arms or legs, feel confident, because in this case, attention is not focused on your person.
Step 3
If shyness goes beyond all permissible limits, conduct psychoanalysis, try to find out the main reason for self-doubt. Perhaps there is something that does not suit you in appearance or wardrobe. Do not be afraid to change, excessive modesty should not become a stumbling block to the improvement of your personal life.
Step 4
When you find yourself in an unfamiliar company, pretend that you are hanging out with old friends - this will make it easier for you to show your best qualities. Try to be yourself, do not lower your head, do not slouch, do not pretend to be an unhappy victim. Take a closer look, perhaps among the new acquaintances there is a nice guy who is worthy of your attention.
Step 5
The first date is the foundation of a new relationship. Gather all your will in a fist and try to overcome your shyness, because there is a person nearby who agreed to come to the meeting, which means that he noticed something special in you.
Step 6
If relationships in real life do not work out in any way, try to find a soul mate on a social network or on a thematic forum. Disconnect with the person, find out his life position, social status, etc. If everything goes well, and he offers to meet, agree, making sure that he is not a fraud.
