Some young people are familiar with the situation: you really liked the girl, and now you are puzzling over how to get her to agree to meet. Some guys are shy and afraid to take the first step. Someone is unbearable to think that the girl will refuse, or even laugh at him. And sometimes a young man “puts on a cross in advance”: they say, she is such a beauty, but I have more than an ordinary appearance, no chance. So what's the right way to get a girl to agree to a date?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember the simple truth: even if you are refused, life will not end there. There will definitely be a girl who will appreciate and love you. Therefore, you should not belittle yourself in advance and despair. It will work out - great, it will not work out - there will be no tragedy.
Step 2
No templates! Try to spur your imagination, make at least some inquiries about this girl. What does she like? What are her tastes, preferences, character? After all, if a girl is modest, impressionable, your attempt to behave in a relaxed, assertive manner (by the way, this is how guys often try to disguise their inner insecurity and timidity) she will hardly like it! Most likely, she will consider you shameless and ill-mannered. On the contrary, an emotional, cheerful girl who adores being in the center of a noisy company will hardly like a modest quiet man, from whom every word must be pulled out almost by force.
Step 3
Try to immediately grab the girl's attention with something, stand out against the background of other guys and her fans, which she most likely has. But in no case should one seem at the same time limited, rude, vulgar. Remember that men and women have completely different psychologies. For example, a joke that causes a burst of laughter in a man's company can only bring out faint smiles in women. And to some representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, it will generally seem extremely unsuccessful, even vulgar. In other words, trying to demonstrate yourself in the best possible way, do not forget the wise truth: "Everything is good in moderation!" Assertiveness in no case should turn into swagger.
Step 4
Remember that no girl is indifferent to compliments. If you know how to pronounce them beautifully and at the same time in an original way, consider that half the battle has already been done. At the very least, you will attract her attention and put her in a good mood, and then everything depends on you.
Step 5
Well, if no suitable thought stubbornly comes to mind, the phrase: "Girl, you are so amazingly adorable that all the prepared beautiful words flew out of my head!" will surely make the right impression. Especially if it is accompanied by a sincere smile and a loving look.
