Boredom kills relationships, so it's important to learn how to be a mystery to the girl in order to keep her attention and not lose her. Learn to amaze a lady of your heart, and she will be crazy about you.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't schedule meetings a week in advance. Be unpredictable and sudden. After work, call her, find out where she is, and tell her that you will come in 15 minutes. Girls don't like being caught off guard, but sometimes this spontaneous date can be done.
Step 2
Talk less about yourself. No stories about a summer in the countryside with my grandmother, schoolwork, or an "interesting" story from work. Be more interested in her life, and when she asks direct questions, answer vaguely and vaguely. Your answers should be in the style of "Who knows where I will be tomorrow: I travel the world like the wind."
Step 3
Give unforgettable emotions. No stereotyped "cinema-cafe-home". Come up with original ways to spend your time - a picnic on the rooftop, horseback riding, hot air balloon rides, rides, etc. Every date should be like an unforgettable adventure.
Step 4
Don't be trouble-free. Sometimes you can miss a call, not answer messages, or refuse a meeting. She doesn't have to be sure that you will come at any moment. If she asks to come to a friend's wedding, do not agree right away. Darken it for a few days, and only then agree.
Step 5
Change. Make a change to your look - change your clothing style or hairstyle. Be interested in other things that you weren't interested in before. The character and reaction to events need to be changed from time to time so that she does not read you like an open book. If she knows how you will react to this or that thing, then you are predictable and not at all mysterious.
Step 6
Don't overdo it. If you want a lasting relationship and this cryptic behavior is just a way to add variety to it, use the methods carefully. Watch the girl's reaction to your mystery, inaccessibility, suddenness, because if she doesn't like it, then it will only scare her away.
Step 7
Use methods wisely. If her pet just died and you cancel the third date, the relationship could be ruined. She needs to feel that you are not only playing with her, but also appreciating. Therefore, dose your "mystery" so as not to lose it, but to stir up interest in your person.
