Sometimes it happens that after a few years lived together, love becomes thinner, pale, or even completely disappears from their lives of two people. Few people think about the fact that a careless word, an offensive reaction for a partner, or inattention kill feelings. However, it is necessary to think about it. If love begins to fade from life, urgent action is needed to bring it back.
Instructions
Step 1
Compliment each other. This is a very important point, and it is important for both women and men. With women, everything is clear, they are known to "love with their ears." If a woman does not hear from her husband how beautiful, desirable and beloved she is, she will wither away. Or he will start listening to other men. However, for the stronger sex, it is also absolutely necessary to hear words of love and approval. Just as the ancient hunters needed to hear from their beloved words of admiration for the mammoth they killed, so modern men need to be approved and admired. Wives need to remember this if they want their husbands to perform feats for them, as before.
Step 2
An important condition for maintaining love is to take time for each other. If a man and a woman in a pair exist as if by themselves, going about their business and communicating with their friends, this couple is doomed. You need to devote time to each other every day, despite work, children, everyday life and other urgent matters. It is necessary to show a sincere interest in each other's affairs, giving advice and refraining from critical remarks, even if it is very difficult to refrain from this. If criticism begs to be heard in such a way that it cannot be held back, use the well-known rule: praise before you scold.
Step 3
Kiss often and hold each other in your arms. Even if there is no previous intensity of feelings, however, there should be tenderness and intimacy in a relationship. Kissing your husband every time he comes home from work will prolong the love in your family for a long time.
Step 4
If you want to return love, get rid of boredom. Boredom and routine kill feelings, and new experiences experienced together make her return. Think over your joint leisure time, fill it with new impressions, emotions and surprises. Of course, this requires some effort, but the reward will be long and strong love in the family.
